Fun on the Fourth
I do not enjoy all of the 4th
of July activities. When my children were young, it was the same battle every
year. My sons started their lobbying efforts the minute the first fireworks
stand appeared in town, never mind that it wouldn’t open for a week or two.
“Please Mom, everybody else’s
mom lets them have Black Cats and Roman Candles and those ones that shoot
really, really high in the sky. How come all I get are snakes and sparklers?”
my younger son whined as he followed me around in the grocery store. “I saw the
sign on the fireworks stand in the parking lot says they are opening tomorrow.
I’ll even use my own money.”
“Your grocery total comes to $105.43. Would
you like help out with those?” the check-out clerk said and handed me the
two-foot long cash register slip.
“Please Mom, can I have
$20.00 for fireworks. I’ll pay you back when I get a job. I promise, and you
won’t have to pay me to mow the yard,” my older son said. I wondered when we
had started paying him to mow the yard. I wondered why he would ask me to spend
money on something to literally set on fire and possibly harm himself with
while I was spending big dollars at the grocery store.
I have pleasant memories of
sitting on the back porch steps, hands over my ears while my father lighted one
small package of firecrackers and tossed them in the air one by one, away from
the house. When I grew older I enjoyed writing my name in the air and making
stars with my allotted two sparklers. The evenings were topped off with
homemade ice cream. Oh yes, I enjoyed celebrating our nation’s freedom.
Motherhood, though, woke me up to the more dangerous things in life and
shooting fireworks was certainly one of them.
It took several years
before I finally discovered the perfect way to celebrate July 4th. A
fine meal of hamburgers from the grill, roasted ears of corn, Grandma’s potato
salad and fresh tomatoes started the evening.
The meal was topped off with homemade ice cream. Sometimes there was an
apple pie or chocolate cake, all shared with good friends. After the meal our
families watched the community display of fireworks at the local park. Each
year we declared the finale the best one ever. The holiday ended with the
children’s dads helping the kids set off a modest amount of fireworks in the
street. Even that plan “backfired” one year when one of my son’s firecrackers
burned too closely to his finger, and in his eagerness to not burn his finger, he
blindly tossed the firecracker. It landed on another boy’s back. Fortunately,
neither boy was harmed.
However you celebrate July
4th, I hope you have a safe and happy one and fully appreciate the
freedoms we have in this great country of ours.