Family Fun in
Abilene
By Judy
“How about we take a
mini-vacation next weekend?” I asked my husband one fine summer day. That was
how the weekend in Abilene began. I was excited to visit the birthplace of
Dwight D. Eisenhower. My parents and
grandparents were strong Republicans, and I remembered listening once or twice
to President Eisenhower speaking on the radio. My neighbors across the road
even had a picture of Ike on their wall.
I have no memory of the long
drive to Abilene so perhaps it was uneventful. The children were three-months-old,
three, seven and ten. My husband and I were thirty-four and thirty-five. (Still
young enough to think we could conquer the world or at least survive a weekend
trip with the kids.) There would have been several bathroom breaks, a couple of
stops for the carsick child to vomit and maybe a stop or two to change drivers
when the non-driving person might have been too vocal about the other driver’s
driving skills. It was, no doubt, a fairly typical road trip for our family.
What I do remember is this.
“Mom, I don’t feel so good,”
my seven-year-old daughter said about a minute after we entered the Eisenhower
Presidential Library and Museum.
“Are you going to throw
up?” I asked. (That was my
go-to-response anytime a child told me they didn’t feel good.)
“No, but my throat hurts,
really bad, too,” she answered in a hoarse whisper.
We did not take many trips
when the children were little, and I had looked forward to this weekend. I was
not going to let a little sore throat put a damper on our family fun. “You can
ride in the stroller,” I told the seven-year-old. “Your father can carry your little brother,
and I’ll carry the baby.” Lucky for me I had brought one of those pouch-type
carriers for him. At first, the seven-year-old was embarrassed to ride in the
stroller, fearing someone would laugh at her arms and legs dangling over the
edges. Needless worry on her part, though, as soon she was asleep, face down on
the tray of the stroller.
After a day touring the
grounds, my husband was exhausted from pushing the stroller and chasing a
three-year-old. My back ached from carrying the baby in the kangaroo pouch, and
my ten-year-old daughter was very, very bored. And, she had been very, very
vocal all day about how very, very bored she was. The seven-year-old felt
great, having rested most of the day in the stroller. “I’m hungry,” she said.
Can we get pizza?” she asked. Pizza did sound good. I thought it might be just
what we needed to refresh us all.
“Two medium pizzas, one
Pepperoni and one sausage. And, bring us a pitcher of Pepsi, please,” I said.
We happily colored our placemats while waiting on our order. Our food arrived,
and I was pouring the pop into the first glass when one of the children
accidently bumped my elbow. The spilled, swiftly flowing brown beverage quickly
blurred our brightly colored placemats into muddy-looking blobs. The nice
waitress brought us new ones, though, and another pitcher of Pepsi.
One of the children (memory
fails me which child it actually was) reached across the table to “borrow” a
sibling’s red crayon, and accidently bumped the second pitcher of Pepsi. Again
the waitress brought us towels and a third pitcher of Pepsi. I did notice she
didn’t seem quite as pleasant this second time. Nor did she replace our
placemats. I’m a little unclear as to exactly how the last pitcher of Pepsi got
spilled. I just remember I grabbed the baby, my husband picked up the
three-year-old, and we told the girls to run for the car.
The “baby” is now
thirty-three, but sometimes when I wake up in the middle of the night, I’m
still haunted by that waitress’s look of shock. I’m not certain if we paid for
the pizza or all that Pepsi either. In fact, I kind of remember going through
McDonald’s drive-through on the way back to the room. Needless to say, it was
several years before we ventured to the Truman Library.